Mothering the Mother

Loving Care in the Post Partum period

WHAT IS POST PARTUM


Post Partum: First Fourty Days & beyond

The post partum (or post natal) is period in time, that starts after birth. Traditionally the first 40 days, were seen as a sacred window(Ayurveda), a time period during which the gross of physical and emotional recovery takes place and during which rest and recovery is especially important.

In our society the most attention is given to the new baby and we forget that after a birth, the new mother has also been born. Post Partum in the Netherlands is seen as the week during which the new mother recieves Kraamzorg and is also referred to as "the kraam week."

This life changing transition from woman to mother requiers time and rest. New mothers are just as vulnerable as a new born babies and deserve the same love and attention. Their needs are virtually the same, gentle care and nourishment. But within them also lies tremendous power and being seen, heard and validated makes them grow in confidence, trust their instincts. To be able to care for the new baby, the new Mum deserves to be cared for herself. Her cup needs to be filled and that has to be the priority. Holding space for her is crucial.

Becoming a mother in a country and culture that is not your own, where you don't have a network might be a lonely and overwhelming experience.

It adds an extra dimention to the already intense transition into motherhood. I saw this first hand in my mother and father and have made it one of my life's missions to support new parents in this period in this predicament. Post Partum not only the first fourty days but the entire period you transition, where you go through the ups and downs and adjust to a new life as a parent.

As a Post Partum Doula with now close to three years experience i support the new mother and family in practial, emotional, spirutual and physical ways ALL the way through the first year.

"Mothers deserve as much care, gentleness, love and support as newborns do, because they have just been born themselves."

Nourishing New Mama Plan

I am a member of the Postpartum Massage Nederland collective of loving post partum practitioners.

3 session plan
First Session at your home
• restorative moxa treatment
• healing abdominal massage
• castor oil pack
• footmassage
• bengkung bellybinding
Second Session at your home
• vaginal steam session
• restorative moxa treatment
• healing abdominal massage
• castor oil pack
• warming back and neck massage
• bengkung bellybinding
Third session in my practice
• Healing full body massage
• nurturing body wrap

€639


5 session plan

First Session at your home

• restorative moxa treatment
• healing abdominal massage
• castoroil pack
• footmassage
• bengkung bellybinding
Second Session at your home
• restorative moxa treatment
• healing abdominal massage
• castor oil pack
• warming back and neck massage
• bengkung bellybinding
Third session at your home
• vaginal steam session
• healing abdominal massage

castor oil belly wrap

head/neck/shoulder massage

Fourth Session at the practice

Restorative moxa treatment

Abdominal and pelvic massage

Fifth Session at the practice

Full body massage

Nurturing body wrap

Blessing for motherhood

€899

7 session plan
First Session at your home
• restorative moxa treatment
• healing abdominal massage
• castoroil pack
• footmassage
• bengkung bellybinding
Second Session at your home
• restorative moxa treatment
• healing abdominal massage
• castor oil pack
• warming back and neck massage
• bengkung bellybinding
Third session at your home
• vaginal steam session
• healing abdominal massage
•castor oil belly wrap
head/neck/shoulder massage
• Bengkung Bellybind
Fourth Session at the practice
•Restorative moxa treatment
•Back massage
• Bengkung Bellybind
Firth Session at the practice
• Restorative moxa treatment
•Nurturing body wrap
•Blessing for motherhood
Sixth Session at the practice
• Dry Brushing of the body
• Healing body massage
• Nurturing body wrap
Seventh Session at the practice
• Herbal footbath
• Full body massage
•Nurturing body wrap
•Blessing for motherhood

€1239

Post Partum Support

You can make use of my services in different ways.

Good care for the Mother is Good Care for the baby

Allow yourself warmth, support and rest in this intensive time period

You get the benefits from a good post partum for the rest of your life. You create fundaments of self care and ballance

POST PARTUM DOULA

support


€50 / hour

in blocks of min. 4 hours

Cooking of nutritious meals

Foot baths, sitzbaths

Support in handling your baby

Support in gaining confidence as a new parent

Relaxation Meditation / Breathwork / Affirmations

Tips & Tricks about life as a new Mom in Utrecht

Local References

BELLY BINDING

& POST PARTUM PAPMPERING


€140

2 belly binding sessions €200

Belly Bind of 17m

Instructions of self binding

Loving binding of your belly

soft belly massage

Castor oil packs

Moxa - warming and energising treatment from the Traditional Chinese Medicine tradition

Various possibilities for extra treatments

POST PARTUM MASSAGE


€ 90

/ 250 euro for 3x

In the comfort of your home

60min pure relaxation

carefully chosen organic massage oil and aromatherapy oil to keep.

€ 65

/ 175 euro for 3x

At my practice BirthSpace on Burgemeester Verderlaan 19 in Hoge Weide Leidsche Rijn. Utrecht


Overnight support is available as well! please contact me for more information.

I can put together a support services package that works just right for your family's situation.

Tradition from Malaysia

Bengkung Bellybind comes from Malaysian post partum tradition, in Malaysia womens belly's are bound during the first 40 days after the birth of their baby..

Bound in love

The belly bind is a 17 meter long pure cotton fabric which is used to bind the new mothers belly

Bengkung Belly Binding


Physicial Support

The belly bind gives support to the empty belly which housed life for 9 months. The belly now has a lot air and emptiness. To bring everything back together again through the fabric holding it all close recovery might be aided. It helps you in your posture, which especially during breastfeeding might get neglected.

Emotional/Spiritual Support

The support the belly bind offers is not only physicial. After the birth many women express that they feel very "Open". A belly bind acts as a literal and metaphorical hug and helps you feel whole again and protected in your openness from the outside world.

Rebozo Closing Ritual


Together with my dearest wam and loving colleagues Anita Dobre and Karina Vos, we support women in this 3 hour long ritual which marks

the right of passage of the new mother.

The rebozo closing ritual (know as well as "Closing of the Bones" stems from the Mexican Cerrada tradition,

the 40 day confinement period after the birth of a child, but ritual "closing" of the new mother

is seen in cultures all around the world. From the Middle East to Asia, to traditional pagan traditions.

It marks the ending of an important transitional period for the woman.

Her pregnancy and the birth of her child, and of her new self. The woman who has given birth will now go into the world

caring for her baby and for herself

is surrounded and embraced by love of other women, mothers, with the fabric of the rebozo shawls.

Matrescence


I highly recommend this fantastic TED talk by Alexandra Sacks MD about the transition to motherhood.

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